Lisa Rinna has opened up about her experiences with Bravo in her new memoir, You Better Believe I’m Gonna Talk About It. The 62-year-old reality star does not shy away from controversial topics, particularly her time on The Real Housewives of Beverly Hills (RHOBH). In the prologue, she boldly states, “None of the names have been changed in this book because everything here is just my opinion, and I’m entitled to it… so f*** ’em!” While she later clarifies that some names have been altered for privacy, Rinna’s willingness to share her unfiltered thoughts is evident.
The memoir begins with a dramatic recounting of her first day filming RHOBH, during which producers allegedly expressed concern over the show’s lack of excitement. According to Rinna, Brandi Glanville stepped in, saying, “Don’t worry, they can cut around it,” as they aimed to inject a dose of drama into the episode. Rinna was part of the RHOBH cast from 2013 until 2022, and her insights reveal a behind-the-scenes world that often contrasts with the polished episodes aired on television.
Financial Penalties and Personal Struggles
One of Rinna’s most shocking claims involves a substantial fine imposed by Bravo. She states that she received a $50,000 fine for her candid remarks on Instagram, which contributed to her decision to leave the show. Reflecting on her departure, Rinna notes, “I had a great time. It was really only the last year that sucked.” She acknowledges a mix of laughter and memorable moments, but ultimately, the pressure became too much.
Rinna also describes the challenging period following her mother’s death in November 2021. Just three days after her mother, Lois, passed away at age 93, Rinna was required to travel to Mexico for RHOBH filming. She expresses frustration over the lack of support from the network during her time of grief, stating, “Bravo should have said to me, ‘Lisa, don’t worry… you take as much time as you need.’” Instead, she felt pressured to participate in filming, highlighting the often harsh realities of reality television.
Confrontations and Controversies
Rinna’s memoir also revisits notable incidents from RHOBH, including a dramatic trip to Aspen during season 12. She describes witnessing a meltdown from Kathy Hilton, detailing an intense outburst that left her feeling unsettled. “I had never ever had anybody behave like that in front of me in my entire life,” Rinna writes, noting that her efforts to address Hilton’s behavior led to her being vilified.
Additionally, Rinna recounts her reaction to being mentioned in Andy Cohen‘s 2023 memoir, The Daddy Diaries. She expresses anger over the inclusion of her personal texts, stating, “It was so shady, so Andy, so Bravo, so unnecessary.” Her frustrations culminated in a dramatic act of throwing Cohen’s book into her fireplace.
Throughout the memoir, Rinna reflects on her overall experience on RHOBH, admitting to feeling “miserable” at times. Despite the challenges, she acknowledges the personal growth and friendships she gained, emphasizing the bonds formed through shared experiences, both good and bad.
As Rinna’s memoir continues to stir conversations, it sheds light on the complexities of reality television, revealing the often unseen pressures and emotional toll experienced by its stars. With her candid storytelling, Rinna invites readers into her world, making it clear that her journey is far from ordinary.
