Family Celebrates Early Thanksgiving as Brother Faces Hospice

In October 2009, Ann Nunnally faced the heartbreaking loss of her brother to cancer. During the final six months of his life, the siblings spoke daily, sharing memories and hopes. Ann’s brother, who had a vibrant personality and was a Vietnam War veteran, expressed his desire to celebrate Thanksgiving one last time with family and friends. Despite his deteriorating health, Ann was determined to fulfill his wish.

While attending a women’s conference in St. Louis, Missouri, in early October, Ann received a call from her brother. Their conversation, which lasted through her dinner, revealed his yearning for a final Thanksgiving gathering. Ann, recognizing the gravity of the situation, began to pray for guidance on how to make this wish a reality.

After the successful conference, she returned home without a clear plan. Yet, inspiration struck when she considered moving Thanksgiving to October 12. Excited by the idea, she consulted her family, and everyone agreed to participate in this early celebration. Ann informed her brother to invite fifty friends and family members, rallying support for a memorable occasion.

As preparations unfolded, tragedy struck. The morning after Ann delivered Thanksgiving food, her brother was taken by ambulance to hospice care. Doubts crept in as she questioned whether her timing had been too late. Fortunately, hospice staff offered a meeting room for the feast, allowing the family to gather and celebrate as planned.

On that special day, surrounded by loved ones, Ann’s brother enjoyed a heartfelt Thanksgiving. Just days later, he passed away, leaving behind cherished memories of that gathering. His faith, defined by the phrase “a whosoever” from John 3:16, resonated deeply within the family.

Holidays often require adaptability, an essential lesson for navigating life’s unpredictable nature. Ann emphasizes that adjusting to new circumstances is vital, particularly during festive times. She advises those facing challenges—like divorced parents or separated family members—to focus on relationships rather than specific dates on the calendar.

In a recent discussion with a father facing his first Christmas without his children, Ann reminded him that the essence of the holiday lies in the bond he shares with them, not just the day itself. Celebrations can occur at any time, as long as families agree on the details.

Ann also reflects on a significant biblical moment when Jesus fed the five thousand, a testament to adaptability. The disciples wanted to dismiss the crowd due to hunger and lack of food, but Jesus asked them, “What do you have?” This illustrates that miracles often arise from what one possesses rather than what one lacks.

By embracing flexibility and seeking divine wisdom, families can create joyful experiences even in challenging times. Ann’s story serves as a reminder that being adaptable can lead to extraordinary moments and a deeper appreciation for family connections during the holidays.