Reflecting on the profound impact of service to others, George H.W. Bush’s experiences as a young Navy pilot during World War II illustrate a life shaped by purpose. After being shot down over the Pacific near Chichi Jima, he was rescued by the USS Finback, becoming one of only three survivors. This moment of providence prompted a lifelong question: “Why me?” This inquiry, recounted by his long-time chief of staff, Jean Becker, was not born from self-pity but rather a deep sense of gratitude and a commitment to serving others.
Bush’s understanding of survival transformed into a guiding principle for his life. He embodied this ethos daily, demonstrating humility, compassion, and a love for humanity. Similarly, the legacy of Fred Rogers, known to many as Mister Rogers, resonates with this philosophy. Rogers famously stated, “Love and success, always in that order — it’s that simple and that difficult.” A note found in his wallet upon his passing underscored his belief: “Life is for service.” This sentiment originated from a marble plaque at Rollins College, where he graduated in 1951, and continues to inspire students.
The commitment to service is a hallmark of the armed forces, where men and women consistently choose the needs of others over their own desires. The strength of any military force lies not in its weaponry but in the courage and sacrifice of its veterans and active-duty members. From historic battles in Normandy to contemporary efforts in Afghanistan, generations have exemplified this spirit of service.
Veterans Day serves as a reminder that honoring those who have served extends beyond commemorating battles and victories. It is about recognizing a promise: freedom is worth protecting, and the love of country is intertwined with the love for its people. This philosophy of service is also deeply embedded in the ethos of Rollins College, fostering a community that values strong relationships and purposeful living.
Research from the Harvard Study of Adult Development, the longest-running study on human happiness, reveals that a fulfilling life is rooted in two primary factors: building meaningful relationships and discovering one’s purpose. Rollins College excels in both areas, nurturing connections among students and guiding them toward a life of service.
As we observe Veterans Day, it is crucial to honor our heroes not only through parades and speeches but by embodying their example. It invites us to lead lives filled with gratitude and purpose, reflecting on our own motivations behind the question “Why me?” By encouraging our children to understand that love is a strength, we teach them that a life well-lived is measured not by personal achievements but by the care extended to those around them.
In the spirit of service championed by figures like George H.W. Bush and Fred Rogers, may we all strive to find fulfillment in helping others. Robert “Navy Bob” Roncska, a retired U.S. Navy veteran with a doctorate from Rollins College’s Crummer School of Business, embodies this commitment to service, reminding us of the lasting impact of living a life dedicated to others.
